Disability After Dark
The podcast shining a bright light on disability stories.
7 years ago

DISAFTDARK MINI 20

Wow, it's our 20th disaftdark minisode! In this minisode, I get an e-mail from Jessica, who tells us all about their experiencing dating with a disability; whether they are gay or straight, and their comfortability in simply being alone and feeling complete. It was an awesomely long e-mail, but it resonated with me, and I hope you enjoy! Also, if you have a minisode idea that you want to share, please e-mail [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])

7 years ago

Episode 092 - Entertainment Tonight Made Me Gay; Which Celebs I Think Aren’t Ableist (and who I wanna fuck)

In this episode, I share with you that I love pop culture and celebrities along with sex and disability, so I combined these two loves. I talk about the celebs that I think wouldn't be super ableist (and some who might be a little ableist), and who I'd like to fuck. This one was so fun to do... Enjoy!

7 years ago

DISAFTDARK MINI 19

In this minisode, I get a letter all about poop, sex, and disability. Larry asks me about polyamory and disability, and I let you all know about shitty sexual ableism that I have to deal with. Also, find out about a new venture I am working on. If you have a story/thought/anecdote/ableist experience you wanna share, be sure to send it in for a minisode to [email protected]

7 years ago

Episode 091 - Lights, Camera, Cripple

In this episode, I talk about some of the times that I have been in photo shoots. I share 3 stories about what taking sexy photos as a disabled person is like. I talk about how disabled photography may be viewed by non-disabled people, sex and disability in photos, and more. Enjoy! I have added photos to the Facebook Group for this episode. Like us at Facebook.com/disabilityafterdark

7 years ago

DISAFTDARK MINI 18

In Minisode 18, I get an e-mail from Spencer who tells us all about his sexy adventures at a Green Day concert in the UK. I get a gentle reminder to watch how I word things, and I'm asked, "what's the difference between hyper-sexualization and asexualization of disabled people." Remember, if you have a story, an anecdote, thought, theory or anything to say on disability that you want included as a minisode, e-mail us at [email protected].

7 years ago

Episode 090 - “Leaning into Discomfort” - A Chat with Rae

In episode 090, I talk with my friend (and new research assistant for the show), Rae. We talk about their upbringing in Ireland as both queer and disabled, working on their gender identity journey as a disabled person, religion, disability, and sex, flirting with low vision and so much more. This was a great interview and I hope you enjoy it! Remember, if you wanna contribute to a minisode, tell a story, be a guest, etc. e-mail [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]) Also, if you loved Rae and wanna follow them more, reach out here: [https://twitter.com/butanoverture](https://twitter.com/butanoverture)

7 years ago

DISAFTDARK MINI 17

In Minisode 17, I hear from a listener whose partner had a stroke, and the impact that has had on him. I also get a letter from Alice who asks, "How do I work in a residential care setting and talk about sex?" If you have a story, question, an idea for a minisode be sure to send it to [[email protected]. ](mailto:[email protected].)

7 years ago

Episode 089 - Silly Things I’ve Done to Make Boys Like Me

In this episode, I share with you some stories of things I have done to make boys like me, or stuff I did in the pursuit of peen - or both, and some of these things compromised my disability, health and safety. From flying by myself on airplane with a damaged wheelchair to meet a guy who paid no attention to me, to waiting 3 hours on a fall evening for a hook up who didn't show and also catching pneumonia, and lastly trying to get home from a hook up gone wrong, only to unintentionally flash people my disabled dick! If you did something silly for love, lust peen and everything in between that compromised your disability, let us know at [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]) Remember, you can support this show by pledging to our Patreon: patreon.com/cripplecontent as little as $1/month helps this show stay up and running! Thank you!

7 years ago

DISAFTDARK MINI 16

In Minisode #16, I talk with my friend Claire AH about disability, sexuality and how academia perceives that intersection. She tells us about her experience putting her sexuality and disability into an academic paper, and how academia looks at sex and disability. If you want to send in ideas for a minisode, send an e-mail to [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])

7 years ago

Episode 088 - Ableist Busting Sex Tech

In this episode, I look at the way we talk about technology advancements with respect to disability. We love seeing wheelchairs that walk up stairs as ways to fix ableism, but other forms of technology like sex toys treat disabled people like sad, poor people who can't ever get laid. I wanted to change that conversation and so by looking at sex dolls, virtual reality sex consoles and teledildonics, I discuss why these options could actually be great ways to incorporate disability into the sex tech industry in a positive way. Enjoy!