Disability After Dark
The podcast shining a bright light on disability stories.
7 years ago

DISAFTDARK MINI 07

For minisode #7, I asked you to send in your hilarious sex stories that incorporate disability. Wow, I got some good ones; unwanted visitors, things you never thought you'd hear during sex, some unexpected acrobatics and seizure sex. If you wanna write in for a minisode, write: [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])

7 years ago

Episode 078 - That Time we Talked about Menstruation and Disability; An Interview with Jane Hartman Adame

In this episode, I talk with creator of the Keela Cup, Jane Hartman Adame, about the difficulties finding products that are accessible when you are disabled and menstruating. She shares why she created the Keela Cup, her experiences with EDS, and of course, we go off on several tangents about disability. Enjoy this one, it's important! Here are the links to Keela Cup and Jane's work: Facebook: [https://www.facebook.com/keelacup](https://www.facebook.com/keelacup) Twitter: [https://twitter.com/keelacup?lang=en](https://twitter.com/keelacup?lang=en) Linkedin: [https://www.linkedin.com/in/jane-hartman-adam%C3%A9-b6472a56/](https://www.linkedin.com/in/jane-hartman-adam%C3%A9-b6472a56/) Instagram: [https://www.instagram.com/keelacup/](https://www.instagram.com/keelacup/) Website: [https://keelacup.com/](https://keelacup.com/) If you're in the US, you can get $10 off your pre-order of the Keela Cup if you head to the website and use the code CUPAFTERDARK.

7 years ago

DISAFTDARK MINI 06

In this minisode, I get an e-mail all the way from Finland from Maria, who wants to learn my views on what you need to know to become a sexual assistant. I share some of my uneducated thoughts on the issue here. Also, if you want to contribute to a minisode, please e-mail: [email protected]

7 years ago

Episode 077 - DisabilityAfterDark Reviews Me Before You (Me Before Ew)

In this episode, I decided that I wanted to review the big blockbuster romance "Me Before You", and also shed light on why this trash-fire of a movie was so ableist and depicted sex and disability so poorly. Along with my review, I have included Youtube clips of disabled people discussing the book the movie was adapted from: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z9bkWJtm-mU](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z9bkWJtm-mU) and amazing look at the movie as a horror film, by author Carrie Wade. [https://www.autostraddle.com/me-before-you-is-the-most-terrifying-horror-film-of-2016-356873/](https://www.autostraddle.com/me-before-you-is-the-most-terrifying-horror-film-of-2016-356873/) Enjoy this brand new episode of DisabilityAfterDark!

7 years ago

DISAFTDARK MINI 05

In this minisode, we get a facebook thread from Olivia about how ableism affects all types of relationships. She offers a few key examples including ableism from family members, shitty accessibility options, and exes who employ ableism to make themselves feel better. If you want to contribute to a minisode, send all your thoughts and feelings about disability to [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]) Thanks y'all,

7 years ago

Episode 076 - Get Your Gimpy Groove On - Sex, Dancing and Disability

In this episode, I talk about my experiences going to an event and dancing, and what dancing has meant to me as a disabled person. I share how the way we talk about dancing and sexuality is ableist and how when we talk about dancing and disability, we usually don't talk about sensuality, but rather, rehabilitation. Ugh. Take a listen on why I think dancing as a spastic, gimp can be sexy and sensual as fuck.

7 years ago

DISAFTDARK MINI 04

In this minisode, we hear from Jeff as he lets is know his thoughts on a past episode, and how he feels about masturbation and disability. Send in your thoughts, feelings and ideas on all things disability to [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])

7 years ago

Episode 075 - Accessing Anal - 13 Tips To be a Better Disabled Top

In this episode, I look at ["17 Tips on How to be a Better Top](https://www.advocate.com/sexy-beast/2016/8/03/17-tips-being-better-top#article-content)", and I re-jig it for the male-seeking male disabled community, calling it "13 Tips to be a Better Disabled Top". We talk about how being a disabled top can be super awesome, and how disability should be included in these listicles.

7 years ago

DISAFTDARK MINI 03

In minisode #03, I get a letter from Hayley who shares how being a sex worker with disabilities changed her life. Hayley's contact info Follow her on Twitter @bookhayleyjade or email her at [email protected] If you wanna write in your thoughts, feelings, hopes and dreams around disability and sexuality and tell me what's up, e-mail me with "Minisode" to [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])

7 years ago

Episode 074 - The Time I Hosted that “Handicapped Orgy”

In this episode, I talk in detail about the time I co-hosted the world's first "handicapped orgy." I go way in depth into the planning, media attention, backlash, positives, and I share whether or not there will be another one. Enjoy!