This episode looks at sex, disability and queerness from a very activist lens. I re-discover how crucial activism is to the work I do. I interview pansexual, queer, disabled activist Bekah Bailey, as we talk about how her experiences as a Little Person have informed her understanding of queerness, sexuality and activism. Also, she has a really funny blowjob story!
Pretty sure the title says it all. This episode looks at the embarrassing moments that happen when you are trying to get laid when disabled. I share some of my stories that make me giggle around gimp sex; I give you an inside scoop to the comedy in cripple copulation. "Dead Turtle Position", Porn Playing on Its Own, and other gimpy get-it on gems! I hope you like them and laugh with me and that absurdity of accessing sex.
In this episode, I share with you as a disabled queer man, what makes me cum. What gets me off. We always talk about the mechanics of sex and disability, and for this one I wanted to focus on the more sensual side. I share my personal tricks and triggers to orgasm as a queer crip.
This episode was powerful. I interviewed fellow podcaster and sex educator Chris Maxwell Rose of Pleasure Mechanics.com and The Speaking of Sex Podcast. She has recently been dealing with a new diagnosis of Type 1 Diabetes. We explore and uncover what this diagnosis of disability has meant for her journey into pleasure and pain. There are so many things she said that resonated for me, as a disabled queer man. This interview shines a bright light on disability in a whole new way, and left me with a lot to think about. I hope it does the same for you!
This episode is a fun interview with my friend and fellow disabled writer Carrie Wade. We sit down to chat with her about Kink, open letters to able-bodied partners, vulnerability and so much more, as she highlights why it is important for her to tell these stories. She is an important voice in the disabled community, and especially for young, queer disabled women, and I was happy to share space with her and shine a light on her work.
In this episode, I interview my good friend, sex educator and author Kaleigh Trace. We talk about disability and sexuality broadly at first, but then we explore the issues of passing privilege, embarrassing sex stories as a result of disability, and so much more. Find out more about Kaleigh Trace at [www.kaleightrace.com](http://www.kaleightrace.com).
This is a throwback episode for me where I share my stories as a young, teenaged queer cripple. I talk about wanting to fit in, wanting sex, and most of all wanting friendship as a young, disabled teen. Through these stories, I hope to provide insight for young cripples coming up in the world, as well as their parents, who may well want to understand how their child's experience in high school as a disabled youth feels.
This episode was so awesome to tape. I talked to my friend Stacie who recently came out to me as a "devotee" (def: someone sexually attracted to disability). I was fascinated by this because as disabled people we have been taught that devotees are dangerous. I wanted to understand what her relationships as a devotee were like, and understand it more. She explains about her attraction, her relationships and subsequent marriage as a result of being a devotee.
DisabilityAfterDark on the Dancefloor! In this episode, I talk about my experiences entering the sexually charged spaces that make up the club scene from the perspective of a queer cripple. I talk about getting ready to go to the club, what it feels like to be unable to enter the club due to inaccessibility, and what actually happens to you once your in 'da club. I suggest that we need both physical and emotional accessibility available in these spaces so that crips can club too.